That’s the Way the Cookie Crumbles — What Does it Mean?

This is a wonderfully idiomatic way to affirm the undeniable fact that there are many things in life over which we have no control. Synonyms include such affirmations as: "That's the way life is" and "what can you do about it? Often: "whatchagonnado?"

Example: "I got fired for stealing staplers from the stationary closet. I guess that's the way the cookie crumbles."

The phrase in question seems to have appeared in the English vernacular in the early 20th century. Like so many idiomatic phrases its origins are obscure. The music duo Billy & Lillie helped popularize the phrase with their 1960 single: "That's The Way The Cookie Crumbles (Ah So)" - evidencing the fascinating truth that Rock music has helped shape English.

It is, however, worthwhile to look at the origins of the word "cookie." Finding out just how many English words are Dutch in origin would surprise many. The word cookie, is one such word. It is related to the word "cake" which itself is a word the English speakers of the early middle ages borrowed from the Vikings. Both the word "cake" and the word "cookie" are derivatives of an older Germanic word meaning a flat, mostly unleavened, baked or fried dough food item. However, naming things-the act of saying this is this, and that is that, is powerful. For example, in the UK "cookies" have VAT on them, but "cakes" do not.

Is it a cake? is it a cookie? Lingustically they're arguably the same, but as far as the taxman is concerned, they're a cake-in the UK.

Cookies and all baked goods changed in character after the 1860s when pelleted yeasts where invented. Prior to this date, and especially before the 17th century, it was hard (if not impossible) to make sweet AND leavened pastries. Much of the calories eaten in the Western world, were made of breads that looked nothing like our breads.

What Are Idioms?

Idioms are phrases in language that are used to convey emotions about certain topics. They are fascinating to everyday language speakers and linguists for a couple of reasons. They exist in a space between grammar and single words-this means that they somewhat conform to grammatical rules, yet have to be learned phrase by phrase just like most words need to be learned. Idioms also preserve in them the history of how and where they came to be. Certain idioms haven't left their villages in rural England. Others are universal. Variations in one idiom tell us about where they have been in time and place. They remind us of times long-gone and places near and far-when and where the world was different but people were the same. Header image: Grace Coolidge enjoys a girl scout cookie in 1923.